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I’m not expert at relationships. I do not know how to handle every fight we’re going to have, and I will never be a perfect person. We’re both still young and we still have a lot more to learn. But I’m willing to take chances, to risk it all and learn everything there is to know just so I can keep us together. I won’t give up on you.
If you believe in Jesus Christ reblog this and don’t just ignore this, because in the Bible it says if you deny me, I will deny you in front of my Father in the gates of Heaven.
M.U :D
“His eyes just melt me on the spot! Plus he gave me chocolates for my birthday. Isn’t he so thoughtful and sweet?” she thought.
“Well, she’s pretty and so excited with the gift. Kind and sweet girl. I think I like her.” He thought
“I feel something special for him; he probably feels the same for me. It must be us. It must really be us.” She concluded.
MU a.k.a. Mutual Understanding. Same feelings for each other. Feelings keep rushing and it’s so good that you wish it won’t stop. Well, you wish.
MU is everywhere and you can’t just get enough of it. It’s pretty viral. Symptoms are dreamy-eyed young people floating in the air thinking MU must be love.Well, MU is not love. The fact that “mutual” has “mute” for its root word proves that it isn’t love. Love is expressed in balance through words and actions. Love is not mute.
When you are in a mutual understanding, you don’t usually utter words to confirm what you understand. You just assume that what you think is what the other person thinks. Surprise, surprise, we are not mind readers! Just because you think it is, doesn’t really mean it really is! And that’s dangerous.
He thought, she thought. All in your thoughts and in the end you quarrel because you find out you were not thinking the same things. Where did all the feelings go?
See here, MU is dangerous because there is no certainty, no direction, and above all no smooth communication flow. It is selfish and cares not for the welfare of the other. You think that they would think like you do; feel the way you feel.
In the little thought exchange above, girl and boy assume in their thoughts that they like each other. Their thoughts are justified by the acts of kindness and sweetness to each other. But do kindness, sweetness and thoughtfulness equate love? Just because something feels so right, could it really mean love? If all your answers are yes, please reconsider because you’re headed the wrong and very dangerous highway.
Love is not just the “good feelings.” Love requires commitment. It speaks, it acts and it confirms.
crap…
I woke up 4:00am. I try to contact her phone, im not expecting that she’s already awake at that time. we had our short talk because she’s still sleepy and i don’t want to disturb her. xD i just let her sleep and rest again. ZzZzzzzzz.
Its already 10:00am when i got out from bed. I don’t want to go out from my room because my eyes[result of too much crying] aaaaw. :) then i tried to check my my.iit to know my grade in math51 but still sir f*** haven’t release it.
6:00pm, we had a power interruption , again. For awhile, my family watched together the movie entitled “Ghajini”[it remind me of Ka|pana-si3n] ahahah! while watching, we have some chat again with her :)
tomorrow is another day :P
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